By Ivy Thapa | Senior Learning, Monitoring & Evaluation Manager
In 2009/10 Tewa has awarded a grant of Rs. 44,000.00 (USD.440.00) to Mahila Utsaha Sewa Kendra for Income Generation and Skill Development programme of Making Soap at Janakpur. Kausalya is one of the stakeholders of Mahila Utsaha Sewa Kendra who took the benefit from this soap making training. Kausalya is 50 years old and lives in Devpura ward-20, Rupaitha in Dhanusha. She lives with her husband, sons, daughters-in-law and six grandchildren. She is a victim of violence and has struggled for her rights in her family and community. Her husband beat her for being active in social work but she did not give up her interest and engaged herself in helping others.
Men in her neighborhood felt insecure about having Kausalya in their community and often complained to Kausalya's husband. Kausalya was threatened, beaten and finally her husband threw her out of the house. She then stayed with her daughter in Janakpur. She tried to convince her husbandthat he was in thewrong, but he did not listen. She then registered the case in pursuit of her rightful property in Janakpur's District Court and fought a legal battle that dragged on for one year. Kausalya's husband did not respond to the case and lied, saying that Kausalya was not his wife.
Kausalya's husband was determined to disregard her and was not ready to take her back. But Kausalya is a smart lady. She had evidence against him. She had her husband's signature on her citizenship documentation where he had signed as her spouse. She showed that to the judge and was granted justice in the form of property and other compensations. Her husband then became nervous negotiated a living arrangement within his own family.
Now, Kausalya lives with them but has control over the family and her life. Because of her soap making skill and the money she had saved, she got the confidence required to stand up to her husband. Although she took a year-long break from soap making while staying with her daughter in Janakpur, she has otherwise continued to make and sell soap. She has invested Rs. 30,000 in a small wooden shop (Khoka) and sells biscuits, noodles, chocolates, soaps and other items. She sells her detergent soap for Rs20 each. Now she saves Rs.1,500 monthly in her personal account and invests Rs.10,000 monthly in food, electricity, children' tuition fees and other family needs. Usually, Kausayla's husband looks after the shop while she works in the fields but Kausalya manages all the finances herself.
During the conversation, she was asked what she felt is good from the soap making skill, she replied sweetly in rhyme "Man mein Kathi bhaechi, Batuka latkene bhaechi". In English: "What's going on my mind, able to hang purse around the waist." She further adds that the only thing women wants in her life is RESPECT and when MONEY flows into the hands of women everything changes.
By Roshani Thapa | Philanthropy Manager
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