Project Report
| Apr 12, 2023
FWAMARCH 2023 NARRATIVE REPORT
By Parfaite Ntahuba | Project Leader
“I was traumatized because I couldn’t have children in life. I married a man and I always had abortions.
When I had an abortion my husband was not even waiting for me to be healed He used to rape me sexually and the cycle of being pregnant and having abortion began as usual; in 10 years I lived with my husband I had 10 abortions.
He said traumatic words to me because I was not able to give him children. He married another woman. The woman had a child and when He came home he beat me, telling me that I'm worthless.
I was without help even the community pointed the finger at me. I was an unhappy woman who hates herself and who desired death.
At the tenth abortion I decided myself to leave my husband’s house because I wanted to die of grief. I have the pain in my heart of not having children. I am old now and I have no one to help me”.
We thank you for this rich moment which allows us to say what we have endured in our lives. I will try to do what you told us in this road of healing that we begin.
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Apr 12, 2023
FWA FEBRUARY 2023 NARRATIVE REPORT
By Parfaite Ntahuba | Project Leader
I spent a year in my marriage without children; that was the reason that my ex-husband mistreated me. He used to come with other girls and had sex in front of me; He forced me to watch them doing sex. When they finished He forced me to wipe their sex and I did it many time; It didn't affect me because I thought every woman had the worst and I didn't tell to anyone.
It came a time when I was very tired, I left that man and got married to someone worse than the first. Apart of polygamy and physical violence which is simple in our community my husband is a robber: if I buy a cloth for myself or a plate, He sells it, I can't keep aything in my house.
I am a woman who tries to look for the money but He always robs me. Now I have rented a house but I haven't moved yet. I will soon leave him. Thank you for this workshop where I got a chance to talk about myself. Actually, I had a secret: I had planned to kill my husband at night with a little hoe. I can't bear to see him walking around with all the things He's got me endured. Now, I have changed my mind because of this trauma healing workshop.
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Feb 10, 2023
FWA NOVEMBER 2022 NARRATIVE REPORT
By Parfaite Ntahuba | Project Leader
- My name is Chancel. I am 24 years old and I am a member of “TUZOBA ICO TWIGIZE SHG”. I grew up having a passion for being a trader. Indeed, my mother is a merchant. Every time I came home from school, I went to help my mother at all costs. As for her, she chased me away but I did not accept. I studied banking and insurance but I felt unsatisfied. I then set up my small business which is currently developing well. What I just discovered here in this workshop is that you can sacrifice off-duty hours to build a business. Also, there is the difference between a business and a company. It reassured me that I have to work hard to achieve my dreams, to build relationships to have coaches by my side, to work for others not for the salary only but to have experience. Thank you Fiona and Nadia as well as FWA for this opportunity of these two sessions on entrepreneurship. Thank you for sharing your testimonials. I just discovered now that by starting small, you can achieve great things.
- My name is Kentia. I am 20 years old, I am a member of NKOMEZI SHG.This training on entrepreneurship has just opened my eyes to my untapped talents. After the first session, I started to exploit my talents. I have just understood that being rich does not happen overnight, you have to work on your vision and it is not a title of society or social rank either; it's not my future husband's property as well, but it's my own life. And I just understood that capital is none other than the arms, the brain, and the practice of the theories that circulate in our heads and with courage and perseverance, we finally become rich.
- My name is Clarisse; I'm 24 years old; I am a member of TUGIRE URUKUNDO SHG. I had friends who talked a lot about business. However, we stood idly by. Every time my friends said that a girl cannot be independent in life, hence it is useless to have a lot of money. After the first session we did here, I rushed to my friends to repeat what I heard and here we are with this second session we have already defined our vision and our objectives. We have already laid the foundation of our company and with your testimonies, dear facilitators, I have just understood many things, among other things, that despite the challenges girls and women face, especially pregnancies, menstruation, dependency linked to culture and religion, and such, there are women and girls who have successfully set up businesses.
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